Relationship*

Good Afternoon Guys,

Sorry for not posting last week but today's post will surely makeup for the last week. Today's topic is a bit off beat and based on my life story itself. You can see * sign at the end of Relationship above, this sign refers to the Terms and Conditions we generally apply in our relationship, that was applied in my relationship.

P.S. Terms and Conditions doesn't mean that we wont't do anything till our marriage, that is morality which can depend upon time, at certain point it may be right at the other it may be wrong.

So, by terms and condition I mean to say that restrictions imposed in relationship when you don't know its future which is so common in India, two opposite sexes come in vicinity of each other but are not sure about their relationship, same happened to me back in year 2011 when I come closer to a girl, but when I told her my feelings about her she told me that she can't love me because our castes are different but also don't want to lose me. I decided to hang on in a hope that at some point of time I would generate love for me in her heart, I was too optimistic and gave her my everything whether it be my love, my care, my time, my attention everything. But even after 4 years I failed brutally to generate love for me in her heart. They say, that to make someone love you only one reason is sufficient, may be I couldn't provide her that one reason to love me and she left me, that is completely my fault and not hers.

Readers, I am not writing this post to make you read my sad love story but for a reason and reason is that use your heart while moving in a relationship because it demands commitment, brain is used to crack deals not relationship and a deal can be break down easily but a relationship not. If you are not sure that start distancing yourself earlier only and if you can't do that then give your 100% effort to sustain despite the factor of Caste, Religion or anything, In India Law provides safeguard to your rights if you are right therefore don't worry if you are right at yours place.

The thing happened to me, is happening in every nook and corner of the country where youngsters are either killing themselves or killing their desire to love someone (desire should be meaningful and not arbitrary) due to caste-ism or communal-ism. I am not provoking you to fight with your families, just try to make them understand properly, as soon as they realize that they were wrong and you are right at your place they themself will understand your point, and not even understand but also will help in your decision.

The years 2011-15 changed me completely, I used to cook, I used to sing, I used to write, I did everything I loved because I was in love which was a daydream that could not be true ever. After her my interest in cooking, singing and writing vanished and a state of mental illness occupied me, a state of mind which generally termed as suicidal stage or suicidal tendencies, a state which required mental and psychiatric counselling to be cured. By god's grace I came out of that state shortly due to psychiatric counselling, and due to a reason which I will list later in this post. But there are many boys and girls of my age in India itself who suicides due to lack of these counselling, rather we have highest rates of suicides in world; reason being expectations, breaking down of commitment and last but most important loss of hope, my message for such kids or youngsters is that there is a light of hope at the end of the tunnel every time you just need to keep your eyes open to see it.

In my last proper conversation with the girl I loved we both said, "This has to happen", they say every love story can have Happy Ending if ended on correct time, we elongated our relation too long or I must say I took this relation too long if I have ended this on time things would have been different. So, readers please be sure of your relations, your commitments, your responsibilities and take correct measures at correct time so as to avoid suicidal situations.

I would also like to say that I loved her and I still do, I can say this as even after all this happened to me, I still respect from deep core of my heart as I was not perfect in the relation, I did many deadly mistakes therefore I have no right to be angry at her or abuse her or harm her, because when you love someone you don't try to harm them as you want them to be happy forever with or without you. Just understand this point guys Love means Happiness not Scars, scars leave their impression for life either on body or on heart and soul so if you want to leave an impression leave a good impression. So what I couldn't gift her a part of my first salary or couldn't take her to 5 star hotel for a dinner together or couldn't take her to long romantic drive, she will get all this even without me and I am happy with that because with Love comes no clause of Terms and Conditions.

Well, at last I would like to tell that not everything bad happened to me after I lost her as I got few people due to her:
1. Her Roommate, my best friend, intelligent, valiant, simple and gorgeous girl; who provided me courage time to time to fight adverse situations and I respect her to help me out of the situation.
2. Her best friend, a blogger, a chemical engineer, intelligent, dance freak girl: who taught me what is love and what is its true essence, and if I today can write this article then its because of her only, I pray for her awesome future.
3. Her little sister, whom I consider as my younger sister, I love her because her face gives me hope, a light at the end of the tunnel, and when I see her I forget all my worries of life and just start thinking positively, last year she tied me Rakhi and allowed me to have proud brotherhood.

Along with this, every bad time has a good thing that it won't last for ever, my bad time ended when I moved to Delhi for preparations where I got remarkable people like a Crazy-lady who cares for me like a mother do, a chubby sardarji who loves me like a younger brother, a ladoo who shows her love like an elder sister, a heartbeat who always have time to talk to me and few crazy and nerdy roommates who just wants me to be happy. This post is dedicated to all of them.

I hope I was able to make you understand the importance of love, lastly would just say that in this mean and cruel world try to put smile on at-least one face with your love and Spread Love Not Scars.

JAI HIND!

Drought- Situation or Carelessness

Good Evening Guys,

Here is Tuesday and here I am among you with my new blog post. 

While I am writing this blog post various states of India be it Haryana, Punjab, Uttar Pradesh, Madhya Pradesh, Maharashtra, Telangana, Andhra Pradesh, Odisha or Karnataka facing worst drought of times and even in 21st century we seem to be helpless in facing these conditions although I applaud the efforts of Indian Railways and Govt. of Maharashtra for sending water trains to worst hit areas of Maharashtra like Latur and Beed, this is government's initiatives which they are doing at macro level. But what we are doing at individual level; trolling Arvind Kejriwal, Pankaja Munde, Siddharamaiah etc.
Forget politicians, nation is built by its citizens not by its politicians this is the one thing which every individual of this country have to keep in their brain. What we can do lets discuss it, I can discuss because I am doing this since I started watching situation in various due to droughts.

SAVE WATER, but how?

1. While bathing avoid showers and use bucket and use only that amount of water which is just required to cleanse body and keep the water for reuse if you can.

2. You can reuse this water to water plants, wash your automobiles; also when you water plants and wash automobiles use buckets instead of pipes so that only optimum amount of water shall be used and not get wasted.

3. We often see water getting wasted from the outlet of Air Conditioners and RO's, you just have to do is keep a bucket beneath that outlet so that you can reuse it for various purpose like you can make it distilled water optimal for the use in Inverter Batteries.

4. These summers are scorching for birds too, I saw various houses near my locality who didn't kept water bowl outside for birds and then I saw my mother who was filling that bowl for birds in house, I felt happy that at least she is obeying her responsibility towards nature. Guys please follow this Birds needs water as we do and even our Prime Minister appealed us to do so.

5. Lets make it habbit, give your sisters and brothers plant saplings on their birthdays, anniversaries etc. as a gift and ask them to plant it, some trees are better than no trees, more trees will certainly help in bringing rain.
Along with this purchase and gift atleast one cloth of Khadi as I did when I gifted a beautiful Khadi Kurta to one of my loving younger sister as her birthday gift, this might not look big but it is big as your purchase will empower people in village for alternate work in drought times to run a decent livelihood even in adversities.

6. Raise voice when you see any kind of water wastage and guide them to conserve water.

At last I would like to say that Farmer/Kisan is a lifeline of the country make them Entrepreneurs and not Helpless and only you can do that because in a country of 1.3 billion the only majority is us the citizens of country and not any politicians, no donations will help them only your positive and real steps will help them. I hope you will kindly note these points and will apply to HELP our Annadaatas - The Farmers  in this moment of Drought.

"Jis sayant nazar jaye mera Hind nazar aye, ujale hi ujale ho mera Hind jidhar jaye"

JAI HIND! JAI KISAN!

IPL- Ek India Happy Wala!

Good Evening Guys,

Sorry for no post last Tuesday but I will try to make the day with my today's blog post. 

This is IPL season, people from the states whose teams are playing in IPL are excited about the matches whereas people like me are excited to see Vivo IPL advertisements: An advertisement where one news Anchor says "Desh ki Sacchai sirf uski Burai me nahi hai" (means Nation's truth is not only in its defamation), such a true words something that today's news anchors seems to forgot, this is reason why TRP of DD NEWS/LSTV/RSTV are getting up because nation wants Meaningful News and not politically motivated biased news'. Things which Indian News Channels can learn from these adverts because don't be so politically influenced so that it effects your efficiency only and you start watching things in One colour only. 

Other advert that caught my mind was when 4 guys board a cab with a woman driver, they realize that woman is frightened due to them and chose to go home by a route which is safe for the lady, this put the question mark on so called MEN in society who disrespect women, tease them and harm them. I think there is a potential criminal in all of us but what save us from being potential criminal to a gentlemen is our values, ethics or what we say "Sanskar", Sanskar is not offering prayer to god or going to Temple/Church/Mosque, it is to value, respect god's each and every creation among which women are one, and its not about respect too, I often say that women are very aggressive/furious towards Men which results in False Rape cases/False Divorce Cases but it is due to us the Men in society who completely failed numerous times to made the other gender realize that we are their friends/amigos/pals and won't harm them ever rather will protect them from all evils and in return ask them a favour to run this world in a better way together.

"Two different ads, two different perspectives, two different lessons one for those biased people who only wants to sell lies/biased investigations/defamation of govt. and the latter one for those men rather all men in society to make realize one women around them that you are their friend and won't harm them what so ever happen"

P.S. IPL organizers' BCCI must realize about the situation of Marathwada, Vidharba and Telangana and save water to make people of these regions happy too.

JAI HIND!

Welcome!!!

Welcome Readers!

After almost 4 years I am back on continuing on a weekly basis that is every Tuesday. Unlike my previous blogs which were a topic centric, this blog won't be a particular topic centric as I will share my views, my perspectives which shall be neutral on every issue happening around or already happened but needs a way new outlook to see it again.

These concerns could be related to any topic whether it be Politics or Psychology or Society or Romance or International Issues or any thing depending on the need of the hour to focus on that particular issues.